5 Tips for Grooms on The Wedding Day | The Weducation Series

5 Tips for Grooms to make your wedding day the Best Day Ever.

We’ve been to a lot of weddings, and while we try hard to coach our couples on making their wedding day the best it can be, sometimes we all need some help. We’ve compiled a list of our Top 5 (plus bonus!) tips for grooms. From the ceremony to the first look, to just the whole wedding day in general, these should get it started off right!

  1. You are the official Ambassador of Affection on your wedding day. Touch her, kiss her, love on her. Even if you aren’t normally like that.
  2. Tell her she’s beautiful. A lot. Every time you get close enough to whisper it.
  3. Write her a note and get her something sweet and thoughtful that’s delivered to her or in her getting ready room when she arrives. This can be a true gift, or something small like her favorite wine, an embroidered hanky, a new personalized dish for her ring.
  4. Hold her hands during the ceremony. Wipe her tears or kiss them away. And remember that you can kiss her whenever you want, not just that big kiss at the end.
  5. But, speaking of that kiss during the ceremony? That’s YOUR moment. Give her the kiss of her life, and pretend that no one is watching. Take her breath away.

 

Two bonus tips for Grooms!

6. Thank her in your speech that wraps up the toasts. Thank her last, and thank her for every reason you love her.

7. Enjoy your time together on the wedding day. Through everything, remember this is ONE DAY. One day to celebrate, one day to show her off, and one day to show her how much she really, truly means to you.

 

Do you have any other Tips for Grooms you’d add to the list? Leave them in the comments!

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Kate of GSquared Weddings Wedding Photographer & Certified Wedding Coordinator
Wedding photographer, certified wedding coordinator, and the Type A half of GSquared Weddings. Kate has been behind a camera since 1997 and has documented 640+ weddings across Seattle and Snohomish County since 2011. With a background in marketing, business management, and wedding coordination, she brings more to your day than just great photos — she brings 15+ years of knowing what's about to go sideways and quietly fixing it before you notice. Kate is a passionate advocate for Color Integrity editing because your skin tone and wedding colors should look like they actually looked. Featured in HuffPost, Style Me Pretty, PNW Weddings, and Print Media Centr. Runs on coffee and an unreasonable number of browser tabs. GSquared Weddings is a husband-and-wife wedding photography team based in Snohomish, WA with 170+ five-star reviews on WeddingWire, 200+ Facebook recommendations, 90+ 5-star Google reviews and 11 consecutive WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards. Typical investment is $4,500-$10,000.

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